Weddings have always been special, but in today’s world of filters, hashtags, and viral videos, they can feel like high-stakes productions. Sometimes it feels less about marrying your person and more about having the most Instagram-worthy tablescapes, a guest list that’s exclusive and inclusive, and moments that look flawless from every angle. While social media can inspire and connect, it can also turn up the pressure when it comes to planning your big day. If you’re feeling the weight of trying to make everything perfect, you’re not alone.
The Rise Of The “Insta-Worthy” Wedding
Let’s be honest, we all love a good wedding reel. Scrolling through stunning ceremonies and dreamy receptions can be fun and inspiring, but it can also set unrealistic expectations. You start wondering if your dress is “wow” enough or if your cake has the right tiers. Even intimate weddings can start to feel like they need to go viral. The truth is that real weddings aren’t just for show. They’re full of laughter, last-minute fixes, and real-life joy that doesn’t always make it onto a highlight reel. It’s okay if your flower girl doesn’t walk perfectly down the aisle or your first dance includes a little laughter. Those are the moments that make your wedding yours!
Guest Lists, Lavishness, And Living Up To The Hype
Social media can also turn the spotlight on your choices, especially when it comes to guest count and budget. You might feel pressure to invite everyone you’ve ever met or to go over-the-top with every detail to keep up with what others are doing. However, a smaller guest list can actually make your day more personal, and a wedding with thoughtful touches often feels more magical than one that’s just expensive. The focus shouldn’t be on impressing others. It should be on celebrating your love story in a way that feels true to you.
Keeping Up With The Joneses
It’s easy to feel like your wedding has to check all the boxes: a grand entrance, viral dance routine, signature cocktail, choreographed bridal party photos, and a picturesque send off. And if that’s your vibe, go for it! But don’t fall into the trap of doing things just
because they look good online. Your ceremony doesn’t have to be perfect, and your reception doesn’t need to be a social media event. What makes a wedding truly unforgettable is how it feels to you and your guests.
Find Joy In What’s Real
Instead of chasing perfection, focus on authenticity. Choose details that reflect your relationship, not just trends. If you want to include social media in your day, create a fun hashtag and encourage guests to share candid moments, but also give yourself permission to unplug and be present. Some couples even opt for “unplugged ceremonies” so guests can fully experience the moment instead of watching through their screens. Let go of the pressure to perform and remember why you’re getting married in the first place.
Nanina’s In The Park Is The Perfect Place To Celebrate What Matters Most
At Nanina’s In The Park, we believe your wedding should be about celebrating love, not about chasing perfection. Our breathtaking estate, lush gardens, and timeless ballrooms offer a stunning backdrop for whatever style of wedding feels right to you, from elegant and elaborate to simple and heartfelt. Our team is here to support your vision so you can create a day filled with joy, meaning, and unforgettable moments. Ready to plan a wedding that’s beautiful, real, and completely you? Contact us today to schedule a tour of Nanina’s In The Park!
