Weddings are joyful, exciting, and full of celebration, but they’re also a sacred and meaningful moment in a couple’s life. And while everyone loves the party, the ceremony is the heart of the day. If you’re attending a wedding, there are a few simple etiquette tips that go a long way in showing respect for the couple, their families, and the significance of the moment. Here’s what you should know before you take your seat.
Arrive On Time (Or Better Yet, Early)
This one seems obvious, but you’d be surprised how many guests show up late. Aim to arrive at least 20 to 30 minutes before the ceremony start time so you’re not rushing in as the processional music starts. Arriving early gives you time to find your seat, settle in, and take in the beauty of the setting without disrupting the flow. Walking in late can be distracting, and you certainly don’t want to be the one disrupting the event or shuffling around trying to find an open seat.
Be Present And Put Away The Phone
We know that everyone wants that perfect photo for Instagram, but during the ceremony, the couple has likely hired a professional photographer to capture every moment. That means your phone doesn’t need to be in the air. In fact, many couples are now requesting an “unplugged ceremony,” asking guests to keep their phones tucked away until after the vows. It’s a small gesture that makes a big difference, allowing everyone to be fully present during such an important moment.
Respect Reserved Seating
If you see a row marked as “reserved,” it’s not up for grabs—no matter how good the view is. These seats are typically set aside for immediate family members, the wedding party, or elderly guests who may need easier access. Even if the ceremony hasn’t started yet, resist the urge to snag one. Trust us, there will be plenty of other beautiful seats available.
Keep The Conversation To A Minimum
It’s totally normal to greet friends and family as you find your seat, but once the music begins, it’s time to zip it. Whispering or chatting during the ceremony—even quietly—can be distracting to others around you. Keep your focus on the couple and what’s happening in front of you. Save your catch-up conversations for cocktail hour when it’s time to let loose and celebrate.
Be Mindful Of What You Wear
While weddings are a chance to dress up, it’s still important to follow any dress code the couple has laid out. If the invite says formal, dress the part. If it’s a garden ceremony, maybe skip the stilettos and opt for something more outdoor-friendly. The goal is to look polished and put together while being respectful of the setting and the tone of the day. And of course, unless you’ve been specifically asked to avoid wearing white because that shade is reserved for the bride.
Celebrate At Nanina’s In The Park
At Nanina’s In The Park, we know that weddings are about love, family, and celebration—and that starts with a ceremony filled with respect and intention. Our estate offers a timeless and elegant backdrop that makes every ceremony feel special, and when guests come prepared with good etiquette, it only enhances the magic of the moment. Whether you’re walking down the aisle or sitting in the crowd, we believe everyone plays a part in making the day unforgettable. Contact us today to schedule a tour and see how Nanina’s In The Park can be the perfect place to say “I do”—and to celebrate!
